Monday, February 2, 2009

The FUNctional Family

There is a FANTASTIC article in the February Ensign magazine - You can access it online at http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD&locale=0&sourceId=bd959d9ff732f110VgnVCM100000176f620a____

The guy who wrote it was in my parents' ward when my Dad was bishop and I was attending BYU and later, when I worked at BYU after my mission, he worked across the hall from me . He's a great guy. This article is about functional families and it has so many great suggestions about parenting. I read it twice so far because it has so much great, useful information. At the beginning of the article he wrote:

"All families face challenges in dealing with the unique personalities of family members. However, in a family that functions well, family members recognize that they have weaknesses, and they work to improve their relationships despite their weaknesses."

Here are some guidelines he covers about being a functional family:

Parents focus their energy on teaching their children correct principles and allowing them to exercise their agency.
Parents intentionally strengthen their families.
Relationships are of supreme importance.
Parents are active teachers.
Parents lead by example.
Parents teach their children faith in our Heavenly Father and in the Lord Jesus Christ.

I hope you'll read it and share your thoughts.

love you!

3 Comments:

At February 3, 2009 at 6:14 PM , Blogger Melanie said...

I loved this article. Thanks for sharing it.

 
At February 3, 2009 at 10:22 PM , Blogger Belkycita said...

Thanks mom. I can't wait to put more if those inpractice.

 
At February 16, 2009 at 12:39 PM , Blogger Meg said...

Weston and I had a great talk about this article yesterday. We realized that we REALLY need to be better at Family Council if we ever hope to add a meeting with just us talking about our kids someday. It was great for us to consider ways we can prepare to be better parents.

 

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