Thursday, February 25, 2010

Winter Weather Advisory

This is what I woke up to this morning:

... WINTER WEATHER ADVISORY IN EFFECT UNTIL 7 AM EST FRIDAY...

THE NATIONAL WEATHER SERVICE HAS ISSUED A WINTER WEATHER ADVISORY FOR SNOW AND MIXED PRECIPITATION...


RAIN THIS MORNING WILL MIX WITH AND CHANGE TO SNOW TONIGHT. RAIN... FREEZING RAIN AND SLEET WILL MIX IN AT TIMES TONIGHT AS WELL. TOTAL SNOWFALL ACCUMULATIONS OF AROUND 1 INCH ARE EXPECTED IN THE VALLEYS... WITH UP TO 6 INCHES IN HIGHER ELEVATIONS. LOW PRESSURE WILL MOVE NORTHWARD TODAY AND INTENSIFY TONIGHT.


ONCE AGAIN THE SNOW WILL BE WET AND HEAVY CAUSING DOWNED TREE LIMBS... TREES AND POWER LINES. ALSO... EASTERLY WINDS WITH THIS STORM WILL BE STRONG WITH GUSTS UP TO AROUND 35 MPH TONIGHT AND TOMORROW WHICH WILL LIKELY ADD TO THE POWER OUTAGES.
ALSO... THE WEIGHT OF THE WET SNOW ON ROOFS AND BUILDINGS MAY RESULT IN THE COLLAPSE OF SOME STRUCTURES.


It wouldn't be so bad if this weren't the third day in a row of lots of heavy, wet snow... Or if tomorrow's forecast wasn't for the exact same thing...
But there is ALWAYS a positive side. For instance, if you look more closely at the photo above, you'll see these gals:


All these photos are taken from the home we're living in. And I have NEVER seen geese anywhere near the house before. Maybe they're Canada geese and the weather made them think they're home.


And even more on the POSITIVE side - This is one of 2 neighbors who cleared our driveway and the road where the snowplow had left a barricade.

Aren't people grand?!

Saturday, February 20, 2010

BANANA BLUEBERRY MUFFINS

I tried a new recipe this morning, delicious moist muffins. Here's the recipe so you can find out how yummy they are for yourselves. I wish I could share some of the actual muffins over the internet. (I used rolled oats and frozen blueberries.)

BANANA BLUEBERRY MUFFINS

1 cup buttermilk
2/3 c. wheat bran
1 large egg
¾ c. brown sugar
5 tablespoons oil
1 ripe banana, mashed
1/2 teaspoon vanilla
¾ c. flour
2/3 rolled oats or oat bran
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon baking powder
½ c. chopped walnuts
1 c. blueberries

1. Preheat oven to 375 . Grease a muffin pan or line with paper muffin cups.
2. In a medium bowl, mix buttermilk with wheat bran. In another bowl, beat together egg, sugar, oil, banana and vanilla.
3. In a large bowl, stir together flour, oats, baking soda and baking powder. Stir buttermilk mixture and egg mixture into flour mixture until flour is just moistened. Stir in walnuts and blueberries. Spoon batter evenly to make 12 muffins. ( I made 15)
4. Bake in preheated oven for 20 minutes.

ENJOY!

Monday, February 15, 2010

Unlocking The Secret to a Successful Marriage

I read two interesting articles about marriage in our newspaper yesterday (Valentines Day). I am always delighted when efforts are made to strengthen marriages and families. The family is the fundamental unity of society, and we need to do everything possible to strengthen that truth. Stronger families result in stronger communities and a stronger nation. Families are amazing. I'm so grateful to be part of an amazing family.

Okay, here are excerpts from the first article:



Two people meet and fall in love. They make a commitment to navigate life as partners and proceed toward what they envision as a perfect, fairy-tale ending. Then they have children. Or run into financial problems. And don't even get them started on the in-laws. They slowly begin re-evaluating their commitment to each other. ...how individuals communicate with one another during the challenging times ultimately determines whether the relationship can remain strong and whether the romance can remain alive. (I like that the writer mentioned both of these points because they're both important.) ...both partners must value each other's differences, understand each other's needs and take an interest in responding appropriately to each other. ...you have to give the relationship priority over individual needs.

"I think there are too many people that are looking for a good partner, but they aren't all that interested in being a good partner." (I would have said becoming a better partner.)

The therapist had often helped couples simply listen to each other without interruption... "People need to develop a culture of appreciation for one another..."

The second article centered on a recent study of couples who have been married a long time (40+ years). Here are some of its points:

More Americans are reaching and exceeding the 40th wedding anniversary.

Everybody starts with what they think is true love, but it takes many years of living together for that deep love to take hold.

A woman in the survey said, "Leaving was never an option. Even in some of our darkest days, it was never discussed. We loved each other. We were going to go forever. If you weather storms together, which we have over the years, and if you grow closer rather than apart, then in the future you can weather just about anything."

OK, but what exactly does that involve?

"...negotiation, as well as having both shared and individual interests. ... respect is the key." Communication, respect and shared interests are among the themes emerging from the interviews. Couples develop a communication style and openness, and from that comes common interests and respect for the individual.

The study was done by a guy who teaches a marriage course in college. He wants his students to learn that sooner or later, every marriage faces difficulties.

“The key is how you overcome obstacles,” he said. “Just because it’s hard doesn’t mean it’s bad. It means you’re working through something you’re committed to.”



Roger likes to talk to other couples about the necessity, wisdom, and value of the incompatibilities between men and women, husbands and wives. He points out that our differences present opportunities for growth and progress, not to mention discovery and adventure. And I agree with him.


Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Divine Patience

I read a thought-provoking article today and thought I'd share it. Tell me what you think...

A lesson from the Creation
By Wayne Brickey
Wednesday, Jan. 20, 2010

The earth whirls on its axis every 24 hours. The sun, with so much more to haul around -- surpassingly bigger than the earth, and a whole solar system to hold together -- is much slower. And it doesn't seem to mind.

The pattern was shown to Abraham; the planet that "is above or greater" in the hierarchy "moveth in order more slow" (Abraham 3:5).

As the Savior said, "he that is greatest among you shall be your servant" (Matthew 23:11). The one who leads the most serves the most. God is the ultimate illustration. But we all get a turn at this pattern.

When we are in charge -- holding people together, giving support and order -- there are delays. Like the sun, we slow down for those who need us.

The impatient kind of leadership often shows up in public places. Like the irritated parent in a grocery store, jerking a toddler along and carping, "What's the matter with you? Why are you so slow?! Hurry, hurry."

Of course, what's the matter is simply that the child is on a different schedule. Time is reckoned differently when everything that meets the young eye is new and needs to be absorbed. A thoughtful grasp of the world takes time.

But it's easy for the leader to demand that everybody in his or her solar system should go faster than they are able. Rushed, impatient dominion can foster a stressed, unabsorbent, even thoughtless culture on any scale. It can tempt people to leave the system and find an orbit somewhere else.

No wonder a warning flashes at all leaders from the Doctrine and Covenants: "it is the nature and disposition of almost all men ... to exercise unrighteous dominion" (D&C 121:39).

By contrast, those who carried out the Creation "watched those things which they had ordered until they obeyed" (Abraham 4:18). They didn't grab the elements and jerk them around, but called out to them and commanded. In righteous dominion, the Creators watched and waited -- peacefully -- for the response.

Abraham doesn't speak as if the creation periods were locked in to a schedule. They went on as needed, until everything was "good." Only then did the great enterprise move on.

Sometimes we hear that something or someone "took forever" to arrive, to finish cooking or get built, to boot up or shut down. Of course, it wasn't forever -- only a year or a week or a minute, as the case may be. But in God's kind of life, Eternal Life, waiting truly is part of the program forever.

He does a little commanding. He does a lot of waiting. It doesn't make him grumpy or anxious. Real patience is ... well, patient. It isn't agony.

The Creation story -- no matter how much "time" you suppose it took to unfold -- is a story not only about divine wisdom and divine power, but about divine patience.

Even mortal artisans say that if you want to make something fine and beautiful -- something to inspire and to last the ages -- you shouldn't have a clock in the room. It is so with building a soul.

Thus, a senior apostle of long ago, describing our path to the "divine nature," lists patience as the step that leads to godliness (2 Peter 1:4-7).

One day at lunch, a grandson removed the vegetables from his plate and stacked them on mine.

"Do vegetables bother you?" I asked.

"They do now," he answered, "but when I grow up they won't."

Waiting can be spinach for the soul. When we grow up, it won't bother us.

Monday, February 8, 2010

Family Game Night

This is for everyone who loves to play games, like our family. One of my favorite things in all the world is playing games with my family. Any of my family. I grew up in a home where game playing was a part of life. I remember one summer when I was about 12 where we played a game of Monopoly all summer long. Every day, after doing our chores we'd continue from where we were the day before. Hours later we'd put it away until the next day. I don't remember who won, only the fun of playing one game for sooooo long. It really was a lot of fun. I also remember playing a game called Probe, where the object was to guess what word the other person had spelled. You can learn more by going here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Probe_%28parlor_game%29. My 6 year old sister won when neither my mom nor I could guess her word, which was "dikshunery".

Of course, some of my memories are a like like the one you'll find at http://www.babyblues.com/archive/index.php?GoToDay=2006-04-23


So, if you're like me and my family, I found a link that might be fun for you and your family:
http://www.hasbro.com/familygamenight/en_US/discover/25-Off-5-Hasbro-Games.cfm